Wilbroda Says Co-Parenting Is Challenging, Not Friends with Baby Daddy: “Sometimes You Wanna Do It Alone”
- Wilbroda opened up about what contributed to her marriage ending and said she used to host so many people in her house, which was straining her relationship
- However, she is now co-parenting with her baby daddy, and she says the two are not friends and that it gets hard sometimes
- Netizens commended her for speaking out to educate others who may be doing the same thing, unknowingly hurting their marriages
Former Papa Shirandula actress Jackie Nyaminde, known as Wilbroda, has opened up about raising her son with her baby daddy.
Wibroda's relationship with baby daddy
The renowned comedian and radio host also revealed partly what also contributed to her and her baby daddy breaking up.
“Mimi ni mtu napenda sana furaha na amani yangu. That always comes first because I know this is the only life there is to live. Nobody has been to heaven and come back and told us huko ni kupoa. You make your heaven and hell right here. The moment nilianza kuona huyu msee sioni, kasauti kamepandishwa juu kidogo ambayo si kawaida, kuna kujam engine si ya kawaida, mimi nilianza kujipanga,” she said.
Wilbroda also revealed that there are days she feels like raising her son alone because of how challenging co-parenting is.
“That is not to say I did not play a role in our break up. Siwezi sema sisi ni mabeste. We try our best na mimi nakuambia co-parenting si rahisi. Saa zingine kwanza you throw everything and you say you know what sitawahi kukupigia, I'm going to do this alone, you if you want, catch me if you can but me naenda, wacha nikuambie, mtoto ni wa mama,” she added.
Here is the video shared on TikTok:
She added that hosting many relatives contributed to their relationship ending and that it was later, when a mutual friend mentioned it to her, that she started seeing it.
Now, she says she hardly hosts people in her house and tells people to call her first before popping at her doorstep.
Here are some of the comments from the video post:
“Wilbroda, now that's me kabisa lazima uniambie 14 days before ukuje.”
@Josephine Awino commented:
“It's true, very true. I made the same mistake, but it's too late, niliachwa. My guy used to call me Mother Teresa.”
“Thank you for sharing, very educative. My peace and happiness come top.”
@Ras Pickney commented:
“Relatives wengi waeke kando kabisaaa na kwako.”
Wilbroda denies being loud
Actress Wilbroda revealed that she is a meek woman despite the notion that she is a loud, self-made woman and cannot submit.
Wilbroda also revealed that her baby daddy and their son have a great relationship and that he takes time to see him.
The thespian advised people co-parenting to respect each other for it to work despite the things that come with it.